Cheers to the beauty of staying in your own lane! When it comes to surrounding yourself with the right people, the best thing you can do is let people come to you. Rather than trying to focus on getting “in” with a certain crowd or fitting into a certain lifestyle you strive for, focus on putting in hard work.
Why chase people, when you can chase your goals? Put in effort every day toward becoming the best version of yourself, and you’re sure to attract people who are doing the same.
Whether you’re looking to start your own business, run a full marathon, or write a novel—the best way to get there is to put in effort day by day. Along the way, you’ll discover people who are doing the same (or who have reached the level you’re reaching for!)
These people are part of your tribe. Learn what you can from them, share your own wisdom, and grow together! It’s much better than simply looking the part.
Remember that the most important part of success is the journey you take to get there. There are no shortcuts in this; you’re in it for the long haul. Let go of the idea that you need to know certain people or be part of a certain crowd to reach success. Connections are important, of course, but they should feel genuine. That can only happen when you’re genuinely on the same level as those you feel the need to chase.
So work hard, every day. Set SMART goals for your personal success, and take a step toward reaching them. Don’t worry about other people; if they’re meant for you, they’ll find you—and stay.